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Life after pregnancy isn't easy at all .. many make it seem like that but the raw truth .. it's not . Everyday is and will seem like a struggle . Birth is NOT an easy thing to go through . It's a life changing experience and it's hard to come back from and it's definitely a long healing process . I know a bunch of moms can relate to how I'm feeling .. the late sleepless nights , early mornings , middle of the night feedings , nights where all you hear is screaming and crying .. all of it . It's not easy , and sometimes you don't know what to do . You feel helpless and you give it all you've got , all the energy in your body , you feel drained . There's so much to do and take care of , you don't have time to focus on yourself . You don't lose your baby weight as fast as everyone else so you have no choice but to still have to wear your maternity clothes .. you still have makeup on from 2 days ago you never felt like taking the time to wash off .. You wake up late (from the sleepless night before) for an appointment and don't get to fix your hair and it's still in an untouched messy bun from the day before .. you still have the same clothes on you've been wearing for 2 days straight . Your self confidence goes down the drain and you look in the mirror and want to cry because you don't feel beautiful anymore . You get frustrated because you're still cramping and bleeding and there's nothing you can do about it . You don't get to do things by yourself anymore .. getting ready , eating , sleeping .. any of it . But being a MOM is the best thing to ever happen to me , it's the most amazing feeling on this planet . Your child is worth ALL OF IT . You do everything for them . You sit there in awe staring at your child thinking "I created this perfect little human" .. I know I do , I catch myself staring at my daughter non stop bc she's a reflection of me .. I see myself in her eyes . I promise .. EVERYTHING is worth it .. all the pain , the sleepless nights , the unfixed hair , naked face .. all of it is completely worth it . Their needs are always put before yours ! I'm so blessed to have a healthy , beautiful daughter and an amazing fiancée to help me and stay by my side through this amazing journey watching our daughter grow long pieces for formal style occasions ?? YOUR KIDS ARE WORTH IT